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Homeland Day 100th Anniversary Celebrated in Manchester, Connecticut

Posted on June 16, 2014

Story & Photos by Jacqueline Bennett newsandviewsjb.com

Horse drawn wagon rides were a part of the 100th anniversary of Homeland/Heritage Day in Manchester, CT.

Horse drawn wagon rides were a part of the 100th anniversary of Homeland/Heritage Day in Manchester, CT.

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The 100th anniversary of Homeland Day was celebrated on June 14 in Manchester, Connecticut. Since renamed Heritage Day, the annual celebration was originated by Ruth Sears Cheney to recognize the heritage of the many ethnic groups living in Manchester and working in the Cheney silk mills. The first celebration included a day of festivities and floats representing the varied cultures of Manchester’s population in the early 20th Century.

This year’s Heritage Day capped the 23rd Pride in Manchester Week with a ceremony at Cheney Hall, that is now home to the Little Theater of Manchester which is currently staging a production of “Almost Maine”.

The ceremony was followed by a march from the hall along Hartford Road to “The Great Lawn” outside the Cheney Mansions. In addition, free admission was offered at the Cheney Homestead, Keeney Schoolhouse, the History Center and the Connecticut Historical Society Fire Museum. June 14th was Connecticut Open House Day offering free admission to numerous, tourist sites across the state.

Manchester, Connecticut Mayor Jay Moran cuts the ribbon June 14 to begin a community march along Hartford Road to  "The Great Lawn" of the Cheney Mansions to commemorate the 100th anniversary of Homeland/Heritage Day.

Manchester, Connecticut Mayor Jay Moran cuts the ribbon June 14 to begin a community march along Hartford Road to “The Great Lawn” of the Cheney Mansions to commemorate the 100th anniversary of Homeland/Heritage Day.

 

Saturday morning ceremonies at Cheney Hall drew local dignitaries such as Manchester Mayor Jay Moran and other members of the town’s Board of Directors. Hometown Heroes were recognized for their contributions to the community. Special speaker John Sutherland, historian and professor emeritus at Manchester Community College, who taught there for many years, drove down from Maine where he now resides.

Also celebrating its 100th anniversary, the Manchester Pipe Band led the march from Cheney Hall to "The Great Lawn."

Exiting Cheney Hall to join the march to “the Great Lawn.”

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Also celebrating its 100th anniversary, the Manchester Pipe Band led the march from Cheney Hall to “the Great Lawn.”

John sutherland, historian and Manchester Community College professor emeritus, was presented with a limited edition Pride in Manchester blanket

John Sutherland, historian and Manchester Community College professor emeritus, was presented with a limited edition Pride in Manchester blanket

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

“I take great pride in Manchester 365 days a year. It’s an awesome community,” Moran told the audience at Cheney Hall.

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Part of "The Great Lawn" in front of one of the Cheney Mansions.

Part of “The Great Lawn” in front of one of the Cheney Mansions.

The Cheney Mills were among the largest and best known makers of silk. In fact, Manchester is nicknamed Silk City, the renown Silk City Barbershop Chorus is based here, and from about 2000-2009 was home to a summer collegiate baseball team called the Silkworms.

Worker recruitment pamphlets were published in five languages by the Cheney brothers. Workers arrived from Europe – England, Ireland, Germany, Poland and Switzerland. 057

The Keeney Schoolhouse

The Keeney Schoolhouse

Sutherland described the relationship between the Cheney Mills and the mill workers as mutually dependent. As well, he said oral history shows that many workers got their jobs through recommendations from their family members.

The Buttery at Cheney Homestead.

The Buttery at Cheney Homestead.

 

“They came for a better life for themselves and helped make a better life for the neighbors around them,” said Sutherland.

Described as priceless, this antique table is an example of the exquisite furniture the Cheney family purchased and is on display at the homestead.

Described as priceless, this antique table is an example of the exquisite furniture the Cheney family purchased and is on display at the homestead.

Inside the Cheney homestead, visitors look at what was called a"controversial" rug due to its more contemporary date versus furnishings from an earlier era,

Inside the Cheney homestead, visitors look at what was called a”controversial” rug due to its more contemporary date versus furnishings from an earlier era.

He noted boarding houses run independently by residents helped house the mill’s workers. In order to earn a living for themselves, the boarding houses were often run by young single women, or older empty nest couples. They typically provided one meal in the evening, a sandwich to bring to work for lunch, and soup when the workers returned at the end of their day.

During a guided tour at the Cheney Homestead located across the street from Cheney Hall, it was pointed out that the success of two sons from the Cheney’s nine children      ( eight boys and one girl) who made millions as artists actually bankrolled the start-up for the Cheney Mills.

 

(Writer’s note – look for a feature on the Fire Museum to be posted tomorrow.)

“Imagine Main Street” – Strives To Make Downtown Relevant Again

Posted on June 13, 2014

Story & Photos by Jacqueline Bennett newsandviewsjb.com 015005

It has been decades since the first mall was built in the United States circa the late 1950s. Soon enough the mall phenomenon usurped the role of  “downtown” as a retail shopping magnet and place to meet across America.

 

For nearly as long the struggle has ensued to keep “Main Street” and “Downtown” relevant. The Main Street program emerged to assist towns and cities with revitalization. As well, individually communities continue the fight to more than just keep their main streets alive -rather to once again make them vibrant.016

 

An example of efforts to preserve America’s main streets is currently underway in Manchester, Connecticut. The Imagine Main St initiative is celebrating its second anniversary with a Runner’s Art Parade – “a series of sculptures created by area artists” paying homage to the iconic Manchester Thanksgiving Day Road Race, which annually draws thousands of runners, from elite to recreational, to this small New England city.008

 

Last night the Runner’s Parade was officially unveiled, however, the sculptures were available for viewing in the preceding days. Among them are “Poetry in Motion” by the Wit & Wisdom Club, “Together We Are Run” – a unity piece with the Boston Marathon that recently marked one year since a terrorist bombing of the historic event, and several more. The sculptures lined the lower part of Main Street during the celebration of the 23rd “Pride in Manchester Week”, which kicked off on June 7 and runs through to tomorrow, Saturday, June 14. 019017

 

Aimed at not only honoring the city, but also at attracting visitors to the downtown, “Pride in Manchester Week” features a host of activities. A march tomorrow morning will be led by the Manchester Pipe Band, to a ribbon cutting on Hartford Road for a commemoration of the 100th anniversary of Heritage/Homeland Day. The brainchild of a member of the Cheney family that owned and operated Cheney Mills in Manchester, Homeland Day dates back to 1914 when it was started to recognize the varied heritages of the mill workers.

 

Ceremonies are scheduled to start at 10:00 a.m. at Cheney Hall. The day will also offer family picnics, old time music, games, entertainment and arts. The Cheney Homestead, Fire Museum, Keeney Schoolhouse and Old Manchester Museum will be open without charge – some will have a guided tours option.

Of course, it all takes place only a short walk away from Downtown Manchester and Main Street!

 

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K9S FOR WARRIORS, Travelers Championship, Liberty Bank Team Up To Aid Vets with Post Traumatic Stress Disorder

Posted on June 11, 2014

Write-up by Jacqueline Bennett newsandviewsjb007

As if the chance to see top notch professional golfers compete in person is not enough of an incentive to attend the upcoming Travelers Championship, here’s another.

Travelers Championship has teamed up with K9s For Warriors and presenter Liberty Bank to help a Connecticut veteran struggling with Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. As part of a new initiative for Military Appreciation at the Travelers Championship, a “deserving veteran” will receive a shelter rescue dog which will be trained to become a service canine.

The Travelers Championship is slated to get underway on June 16 and run through June 22 at the TPC River Highlands in Cromwell, CT.

“We are honored to continue to support our military through programs such as K9s For Warriors. We can’t thank these brave men and women enough for their brave service,” Nathan Grube, Travelers Championship Tournament Director, was quoted as saying in a press release.

Liberty Bank is seeking suggestions from fans to name the canine, go to travelerschampionship.com/k9s/ to participate. The name is scheduled to be announced on Saturday, June 21 in the Patriots’ Outpost at the tournament.

Chandler J. Howard, Liberty Bank President & CEO is a Vietnam veteran and is on the Travelers Championship board. “As a Vietnam veteran, I’m delighted to know that we’re helping make reentry into civilian life easier for a Connecticut veteran,” Howard was quoted as saying.

K9s For Warriors is a non-profit group headed by Shari Duval of Jacksonville, Florida. Calling it an “invisible” disorder on the K9s For Warriors website, Duval explains she and her husband Bob started the program when seeing firsthand the effects of PTSD after their son returned from two tours in Iraq. He was a “Veteran K9 police officer” contracted as a bomb dog handler with the Department of Army.

According to Duval, service canines are a “medically proven” aid to military troops and veterans in recovery from PTSD – reportedly, 1 in 5 veterans suffers from PTSD.

The veterans themselves learn from “skilled certified canine handlers” to train their own service canines, at a three-week academy in Jacksonville, Fla.

“When a warrior arrives at our Academy they arrive on two legs and they leave on six, with their canine partner,” stated Duval.

K9s For Warriors will also host an inaugural “Warrior’s Gala for Dog & Country” on June 28, 2014 at the Omni Stoneham Hotel in Washington      D. C. Proceeds will go to help carry on the work of the program.

 

 

 

“Big Johnny Always Said” – A Father’s Day Memory

Posted on June 8, 2014

By Jacqueline Bennett newsandviewsjb.com 

"Big Johnny" shown on vacation in Upstate New York with grandsons Mike and John.

“Big Johnny” shown on vacation in Upstate New York with grandsons Mike and John.

Years after my father’s death he is still quoted on virtually a daily basis by his children and grandchildren – affectionately known to his grand kids as “Big Johnny.”

“Big Johnny always said, ‘Buy American.'”  “Big Johnny always said, ‘Never cross a picket line.'”   “Big Johnny always said, ‘Tip well, treat service sector workers with respect.'”  “Dad always said, ‘Put your emergency brake on before putting your vehicle in park to take pressure off the transmission.'” “Dad always said, ‘Turn your tires curbside out when parking.'”

“Big Johnny/Dad always said, ‘Put your head up, your shoulders back and remember who you are.'”

The list goes on, however, the latter is at the foundation of who he was, how we were brought up and is a phrase I have called upon through difficult times in my life.

Of English heritage and originally from upstate New York, my father’s family owned and operated The Bennett Hotel and Sunny Crest Farm. The Bennett Family of Upstate New York  was well-to-do. Although growing up my dad had opportunities such as horseback riding, playing lacrosse and downhill skiing, he and his siblings were reared with the philosophy, “To whom much is given, much is expected.”

Dad at Sunny Crest Farm.

Big Johnny/Dad at Sunny Crest Farm.

Sunny Crest Farm was owned and operated by the Bennett Family.

Sunny Crest Farm was also owned and operated by                the Bennett Family.

Postcard of The Bennett Hotel in Upstate New York.

Postcard of The Bennett Hotel in Upstate New York.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Dad was a hard-worker and  a man of tremendous integrity and principles. Good manners were very important to him. One particularly vivid memory for me is of my mother (Cecelia), my Aunt June, my sister Candy, my niece Debbie and I out to dinner with my father when the language from a group of men at the next table got salty. My father stood up with his perfect posture, walked over to them, looked them in the eye and in a calm voice told them to clean up their act. They did.

Always, Dad opened doors for my mother, my sisters and me and helped us on with our coats. In contrast to some fathers, my dad loved taking his girls shopping and nothing pleased him more than bringing all of us out – dressed to the nines.

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Dad/Big Johnny riding a carousel.

Big Johnny/Dad riding a carousel.

Dad/Big Johnny on horseback.

Big Johnny/Dad on horseback.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Dad had a memorable laugh. To this day I can recall hearing his laughter while on vacation in Washington D.C. He was riding in a paddle boat with my niece Debbie and nephew Johnny, when Deb and Johnny got into a squabble over who should steer the boat. The situation struck Dad’s funny bone and he laughed and laughed.

 

As a father and grandfather he was very present in our lives. Someone who no matter what could be depended on. I couldn’t help but think of my dad awhile ago when my niece Maryann was telling of being stuck in a snowstorm in her car. She said she had called her boyfriend for help but followed-up by saying – without a trace of doubt in her voice – “But I knew if he couldn’t, my dad would come get me.” Her dad being Big Johnny’s grandson Mike.

Sunday mornings belonged to my father. He would heat up the griddle and make pancakes for the family. He was meticulous in keeping the lawn mowed and the car polished. He helped my mother with vacuuming and prepared the turkeys for holiday dinners. He taught me to swim and to ride a bike.

My parents had one of the all time great, lasting romances. Among my mother’s favorite stories was of a church dance she attended also attended by my dad and his brothers. “The Bennett Brothers” would nod to one another if they liked the girl they were dancing with – needless to say his brothers nodded to let Dad know they liked my mom, apparently he had been hoping for a chance to talk with her. He asked her to dance and the rest as they say is history. Mom told too of my father walking miles each day to court her.

Dad always said, she was the love of his life.

Big Johnny/Dad always said, she was the love of his life.

 

They married young and both wanted a large family. They had seven children, literally over decades, myself being the youngest. Three sons and four daughters in whom together they instilled a core value system that stayed with us –  honesty, hard work and education, education, education.

That Big Johnny’s/Dad’s words still mean so much to all of us is a testament to his influence in our lives and the love and respect we feel for him.

 

When he was a boy, my dad’s father died. It was a deeply emotional loss for his family. Left with five children, eventually Gram moved them to Connecticut. It was here that my father met my mother.

Big Johnny/Dad always said, she was the love of his life.

 

(Here’s to all the great dads – remember them on Father’s Day, Sunday, June 15th.)

 

Destination: The Andrea – Misquamicut Beach Westerly, Rhode Island

Posted on June 7, 2014

Write-Up & Photos by Jacqueline Bennett newsandviewsjb

And Just down the road ...

Photo by Jacqueline Bennett The view just down the road …

What has been carried over from the former Hotel Andrea and restaurant is one of the most appealing aspects – a beautiful stone fireplace. For anyone who remembers what stood before Hurricane Sandy decimated the site two years ago, the replacement Andrea Seaside Restaurant & Beach Bar is a stark comparison.

The good news is that any remnant, whatsoever abides, of what has been one of the most popular spots along the Atlantic Avenue strip. The Andrea was never elegant but it was pleasing, a curious combination of upscale elements blended with honky-tonk.

Comfort in the sight of the beautiful stone fireplace.

Comfort – the sight of the stone fireplace.

Gone is the multi-story hotel and the familiar summertime sight of colorful, beach towels drying over balcony rails outside the guest rooms. Gone is the former main entrance, the check-in desk, the game room, the sliding doors of the restaurant and adjoining bar that looked out onto a seaside patio perpetually punctuated by a stack of firewood in the  right hand corner – all anchored by a beautiful, central stone fireplace inside and surrounded by lounge chairs. I had the opportunity to stay at the old Hotel Andrea one weekend. Guest rooms were not air-conditioned, but left open, a cool ocean breeze floated in through the sliding door – a wonderful way to meet the morning. 012027

021 020Comfort, however, can be found in the sight of a stone fireplace now located outdoors in the middle of the uncovered patio portion of the restaurant/bar. The uncovered area is a continuation of a section sheltered by a long, sturdy-looking, plastic canopy tent – situated atop the former outside patio and complete with an outdoor bar. There is a small indoor bar area.

Remaining as well, is the stunning view of waves from the Atlantic Ocean crashing on the surf.

The sun was shining on this day’s visit but it is easy to imagine how cozy it would feel sitting inside on a stormy day serenaded by the sound of raindrops falling against the canopy; or at the end of a sun filled day, relaxing into the night outdoors on the uncovered patio with a Strawberry Margarita in hand while listening to live bands.034028

The new menu features: “Andrea Favorites” such as New England Clam Chowder $7, Drunken Mussels $14, Fried Calamari $12, Seafood Cakes, $12,  Clam Fritter Poppers with tarter sauce $7, Peel & Eat Shrimp Cocktail $16, Asparagus Fries $11, Buffalo Tenders $9, Seared Ahi tuna over seaweed salad with wasabi drizzle $12, Lobster and Asiago mac-n-Cheese $9 and regular Mac-n-Cheese $8;  salads including the Andrea House Salad $10 Misquamicut Cobb $10, Lobster Salad $20;   “Hand Helds” such as the Andrea Burger – an Angus burger with bacon, cheddar and BBQ sauce on a bulky roll $12, Pesto Chicken $12. Southwest Veggie Burger $12, Fish Sandwich – fried haddock with lettuce, tomato, Chipotle tartar on a bulky roll $12, hot or cold Lobster Roll $20;   “Large Plates” like Chicken Piccatta $20, Baked Haddock $20, New York Sirloin $26, Baked Scallops with lemon, white wine, herb butter and panko crumbs $22, Blackened Mahi Mahi $22 all served with potato and vegetable or Seafood Fra Daiblo – scallops, shrimp, lobster and mussles simmered in spicy marinara over gemelli pasta $25, Grilled  Vegetable Stack $18;   “Fried Favorites” Fish and Chips $17, Fried Scallops $22, Fried Shrimp $20;   and “Soft Shell Tacos” three per order of Ahi Tuna $15, Blackened Shrimp $15 or Buffalo Chicken $12.

 

89 Atlantic Avenue, Westerly, RI 02891, 401-348-8788, http://www.andreabeachbar.com.

 

 

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America’s Love Affair with Original ‘Pony Car’ Continues – Ford Mustang 50th Anniversary

Posted on June 3, 2014

Story & Photos by Jacqueline Bennett newsandviewsjb

Twelve-year-old Cassidy Jacobs is shown with her grandfather's "1964 and a half" Ford Mustang June 1 at a Mustang Show in Manchester, CT. The model was introduced on April 17, 1964 at the New York's World Fair, the original "pony" car.

Photo by Jacqueline Bennett  Twelve-year-old Cassidy Jacobs is shown with her grandfather’s “1964 and a half” Ford Mustang June 1 at a Mustang Show in Manchester, CT. The model was introduced on April 17, 1964 at the New York’s World Fair, the original “pony car.” 

Mustang lovers gathered on June 1 in Manchester, Connecticut for a spring Mustang Show at Mustangs Unlimited where a “1964 and a half” model – the debut year – was among those on display. The Manchester venue is just one of car shows across the country where America’s love affair with the original “pony car'”continues as the iconic vehicle marks its 50th anniversary.

According to The History Channel (www.history.com/this.day-in-history/fordmustang-debuts-at-theworlds-fair) named for a World War II fighter plane and introduced at the New York World’s Fair on April 17, 1964 by Henry Ford II, the Mustang was an instant hit. Dubbed a “1964 and a half” model, some 22,000 buyers are said to have quickly “snapped up” the sporty looking vehicles with long hoods, short rear decks and powerful engines. With a price tag of about $2,500, by March of 1966 more than a million Mustangs had been sold and the Mustang had made appearances on the silver screen with Hollywood legends like Steve McQueen in the movie “Bullitt.” Today, new Mustangs reportedly have a starting price of approximately $22,500.

Symbolized by another American icon of the Wild West, the Mustang horse, it led the way in a line of  “pony cars” subsequently produced by other car makers, such as Chevrolet Camaro, Pontiac Firebird and Chrysler Barracuda. Ford Mustang, however,  holds the distinction among “pony cars” of continuous yearly production including the 2015 Anniversary Edition.030

 

Jack Gahr of Broad Brook, CT retruned from Viet Nam to fulfill his dream of owning a Mustang. Shown with his 2004 40th Anniversary Limited Edition Ford Mustang Mach 1.

Jack Gahr of Broad Brook, CT retruned from Viet Nam to fulfill his dream of owning a Mustang. Shown with his 2004 40th Anniversary Limited Edition Ford Mustang Mach 1.

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It seems that every Mustang lover has a story to tell. One especially touching story belongs to Jack Gahr of Broad Brook, CT. As a young man he enjoyed working on Mustangs with his buddies. Those days were brought to a halt for Gahr by a draft notice. Drafted to serve in the war in Viet Nam, he said he made a promise to himself to buy a Mustang when he returned home.

“I told myself when I got home I was going to get myself a Mustang,” Gahr recalled at the show on Sunday, “After buying a house, putting one kid through college and helping another start a business – it was my time.”

With support from his wife Gail, in the spring of 2005 Gahr said he set out to find the Mustang of his dreams. It was during a visit to a local dealership, Ray Seraphin Ford in Vernon, CT., that Gahr came across one tied to an emotional history of its own that pulled at his heart strings.

As detailed in a story written by Sarah T. Parker, provided to newsandviewsjb by Gahr, a 2004 Torch Red 40th Anniversary Limited Edition Ford Mustang Mach 1 had been acquired by Seraphin after the original owner, 18-year-old Eric Fries of Ellington, CT, “was killed in a tragic car accident in January of 2005.” Able to relate to how much that Mustang had meant to Eric, Gahr made an offer accompanied with a promise to Eric’s parents to maintain the Mach 1 “in a way that would make their son proud and honor his memory,” wrote Parker.

Five years and multiple trophies later, Gahr said at the Manchester show he believes he has honored that promise and plans to carry on doing so – in fact, his Mach 1 took home another first place trophy that day.

Erik Nielsen's dad had a Mustang and he grew up loving them.

His dad had a Mustang and Erik Neilsen grew up loving them.

Erik Nielsen of Massachusetts grew up admiring the Mustang his dad owned. “Mustangs had bold, new body styles,” said Neilsen. Over time, he said, they came to be known as “muscle cars” – high performance two door coupes with powerful engines. Nielsen points to the fifty year uninterrupted production of Mustangs as a testament to their endurance. As well, he spoke of the fortitude of Ford Motor Company which in contrast to other car makers, did  not accept bail-out money from the government during a recent economic crisis in the American auto industry.

“Ford never took a penny,” he said.

Erik Neilsen shows photos of his friend's Mustnag before restoration.

Erik Neilsen shows photos of his friend’s Mustang before restoration.

When his friend Michael Rinaldi bought a Mustang in need of restoration, Nielsen said he was happy to help. Five years and thousands of dollars now invested by Rinaldi, looking at the vehicle one would not have a clue the shiny, blue convertible ever looked anything less than showroom condition.

Fil Ferrauto, CT State Director of Mustang Car Club of New England, Inc. pictured with one of four Mustangs he owns.

Fil Ferrauto, CT State Director of Mustang Car Club of New England, Inc. pictured with one of four Mustangs he owns.

Connecticut State Director of the Mustang Car Club of New England, Inc., that sponsored the Manchester show, Fil Ferrauto of Somers, CT owns four Mustangs – a 1968 convertible, a 1979 Indy pace car, a 1994 and the 2001 California special convertible.

“Like apple pie, it’s an American icon. Everybody recognizes the Mustang,” said Ferrauto.

Does he have a favorite among those that he owns”

“The one I’m driving at the time,” Ferrauto said with a smile.

 

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Baby Blue Mustang Convertible – ah, a girl can dream…..

 

 

 

 

 

 

A New Link for newsandviewsjb

Posted on May 29, 2014

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Having happily selected a fresh layout for my news blog in March, I have decided to move forward with purchasing the domain for it. Though it will still ‘fly’ with WORDPRESS, my purchase of the domain means there will be a new link to reach this site.

As of June 1, newsandviewsjb.com will become the new link. I am posting this information a few days early in hopes of giving a heads-up to readers.

Many thanks to all the readers of newsandviewsjb. – Jackie

Lazy, Hazy Crazy Days of Summer at the Heart of Memorial Day Sacrifice

Posted on May 28, 2014

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Those lazy, hazy, crazy days of summer…

Commentary by Jacqueline Bennett newsandviewsjb  

 

 “Roll out those lazy, hazy crazy days of summer. Those days of soda and pretzels and beer…” – lyrics from an old song that usually surfaces on the radio sometime after Memorial Day Weekend, the unofficial start of summer here in the good ole’ U.S.A.

Inevitably, each year criticism also surfaces about picnics and forays to the beach overshadowing the true meaning of Memorial Day which is to honor those in the U.S. Armed Forces who died in service to the nation. In truth, however, as long as parades, speeches and the laying of wreaths continue in tribute to the fallen, what better way to honor their sacrifice than by enjoying what a local newspaper editor once described as “simple freedoms” of American life.

Over the past decade the U.S. has been involved in wars in Iraq and Afghanistan, countries where many women are required to shroud themselves from head to toe with burkas and live very restricted, repressive lives in terms of allowable conduct.

But here in the U.S. – girls, after the Memorial Day ceremonies isn’t it terrific to pull on a pair of short, shorts with a tube top and soak up the sun?

As a reporter covering the town of Windsor, Connecticut, at one of the Memorial Day services I attended, the keynote speaker who was a member of the U.S. military, said when soldiers go to war they are not only motivated by principles but too by memories of their communities; hometowns that represent a way of life held so dear that they put themselves in harm’s way to protect it. Surely, those hometown memories include a Memorial Day picnic or two, hot dogs and burgers on backyard grills, homemade potato salad, a Budweiser, volleyball, card games, sitting around shooting the breeze, ball games or a day at the beach.

After I started my reporting career, I interviewed a couple from Romania in the U.S. as political refugees. One question I asked each of them was, “What do you most like about the United States?” The husband responded, “It is true, here you really can speak your mind.” His wife, whose English was not yet as good as her husband’s and had given up her career as a teacher to come to America, smiled and replied, “You celebrate so many holidays!”

Her observation gave me pause – it was an unexpected answer and something I had not previously given much thought. In a way, it goes to the heart of the American spirit, to celebrate life.

So yes, let us continue to honor those from each of our families and other families who made the ultimate sacrifice to preserve freedom of speech, freedom of the press and freedom of religion. As well though, let us not forget they died also so we can enjoy simple freedoms  – like those lazy, hazy, crazy days of summer.

“Home of the Free Because of the Brave”

Posted on May 27, 2014

Bloomfield, Connecticut May 26, 2014.

Bloomfield, Connecticut May 26, 2014.

Farmington High School Marching Band.

Farmington High School Marching Band, Farmington,CT.

Veterans Cemetery, Manchester, CT.

Veterans Cemetery Manchester, CT.

Write-Up & Photos by Jacqueline Bennett 

Across the country Americans took time yesterday to honor those in the United States Armed Forces who made the ultimate sacrifice. In small towns and big cities people gathered for Memorial Day parades, wreath presentations at cemeteries and monuments, the singing of the ” Star Spangled Banner” and for speeches.

From the smallest ceremonies to the biggest the message was the same – remember with gratitude. It was repeated from one town to the next – along with scenes such as  high school bands playing patriotic songs,  police and firefighter color guards, boy scouts and girls scouts, old soldiers riding in cars while their younger counterparts marched, gun salutes and the haunting sound of Taps.

Indeed, from town to town the message was the same – America is the “Home of the Free Because of the Brave.”

Memorial Day 2014 Anytown, U.S.A.

Memorial Day 2014 ‘Anytown’, U.S.A.

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Singing the national anthem.

Singing the national anthem.

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